I don't believe that it speaks to my character however, I never had the intention to have a weak spot in my boundaries, I was just ignorant. So although I was always really proud of my boundaries, I have learned to improve them further. Luckily I never had to worry about going any further down that road because I did shut down any further inappropriateness, but I want to shut it down before it even begins now. Sounds harsh but sharing that kind of information is the beginning of the road to hell. Now if that happened I would let them know that I think their husband would be much more interested in what they have to say than I am. Used to be that they would often tell me things about their relationships that I really didn't need to know(as I was basically forced to be in a room with these people as a captive listener) But I would pretend to listen and be supportive, thinking that I just needed to 'get along' with them to keep the work environment positive. My idea of boundaries has changed since I've been through infidelity as well.

Y39all got anymore of them